Does Divorce Affect Children?

About this episode:

Labeled a silent epidemic by a growing number of therapists and researchers, estrangement is one of the most disorienting and painful experiences of a parent's life. Popular opinion typically tells a one-sided story of parents who got what they deserved or overly entitled adult children who wrongly blame their parents. However, the reasons for estrangement are far more complex and varied. As a result of rising rates of individualism, an increasing cultural emphasis on happiness, growing economic insecurity, and a historically recent perception that parents are obstacles to personal growth, many parents find themselves forever shut out of the lives of their adult children and grandchildren.

Joshua Coleman is a psychologist. A frequent guest on NPR and Today, his advice has also appeared in The Atlantic, the Wall Street Journal, Chicago Tribune and other publications. His latest book is Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict.